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To the Girl Caught Up in Comparison: finding freedom from jealousy & living your life joyfully

2/22/2018

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Scrolling social media, seeing snapshots of other’s lives, reading snippets of other’s stories, everything looking so perfect and happy, everyone seeming to have the things I desire but don’t have, and I find myself caught up in comparison.

She has more friends. She has more fun. She has a better figure. She has a better life. She’s better than me. I’m not good enough. I wish I was more like her and had what she had. Then I would be happy. Then I would feel significant.

The comparison trap has sprung, and I am caught. What started out as casual pursuing of social media has turned into an assault on my self-worth and a draining of my joy. 

​Have you ever found yourself caught up in comparison?

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To the Girl Whose Dreams Aren't Coming True: how to live with purpose and enjoy the life you have right now

11/2/2017

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​Last month was my birthday. My golden birthday. I turned 26 on the 26th.


I remember as a little girl looking forward to that special golden birthday, which in my young mind was so distant, and somehow seemed a bit magical.

Now, it’s come and gone.

My life looks a lot different now than how the daydreams of the little-girl-me had envisioned it. 

But there are some dreams that have stuck with me since my little-girl imaginings. Some dreams that I’ve held in my heart for as long as I can remember, waiting and hoping and longing. And I don’t know when those dreams will come true.

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Cultivating Contentment Part 5: Go to the Altar: releasing my plans and dreams to God

6/8/2017

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​Contentment isn’t about perfection, but about perception
. Contentment isn’t found in the “if onlys”, but in the love of the One and Only. Contentment comes from believing the truth. Contentment allows for growth and grace.

And in this last post in the Cultivating Contentment series, we’ll learn that contentment comes from living for God, not self.

Maybe that seems to be a no brainer. Joy comes from Jesus, so of course living for Him would bring joy. Yet, it’s easier said than done.

Because I have dreams and desires. I have wants and longings. And I know what it’s like to have those wants and desires, those dreams and longings, go unmet and unfulfilled.

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Cultivating Contentment Part 4: Growing in Grace: when guilt and shame are stealing your joy

6/1/2017

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​Contentment seems to be an area I could always do better in. It’s so easily dislodged from my heart. Joy sliding in an avalanche, being buried beneath the stones of worry, insecurity, wishing things were different.


I named this series Cultivating Contentment for a reason. Because contentedness and joy don’t just happen, they grow. And in order to grow, they must be cultivated.

So often, when we see areas of our lives, pieces of our hearts, qualities of our character, that could use some tending, we tend to feel guilty.

We wonder why we can’t just do better and be better. In shame, we try to fix ourselves and are filled with frustration and guilt at the smallest mess up, the littlest mistake. We feel so far from perfect and fear we’ll never make it, condemned to this constant chasing but never catching.

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Cultivating Contentment Part 3: Lies versus Truth

5/25/2017

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In John 10:10, Jesus gives us a beautiful, hopeful promise:
“I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” (NIV)
Fulfillment.

Fulness of life.

Life in abundance.

If this is the case, then why don’t we always experience it? Why does life not always seem full and abundant. Why does it so often feel broken and empty?

Jesus also tells us in John 10:10 that their is a thief. One who doesn’t want us to live in the fulness of life Jesus gives. One who does not want us to live with joy in Jesus, because such joy is our strength (Nehemiah 8:10), and in this strength, we can do anything Jesus calls us to (Philippians 4:13). So the thief sets out to do what all thieves do: steal. And this thief will also kill and destroy. He’ll stop at nothing to stop the unstoppable force of those who are radiant with joy.

He steals through lies.

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